{"id":834,"date":"2026-06-26T15:49:10","date_gmt":"2026-06-26T15:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aluremart.com\/?p=834"},"modified":"2026-06-26T15:49:10","modified_gmt":"2026-06-26T15:49:10","slug":"say-less-nia-long-gets-real-about-what-she-wont-tolerate-from-men-the-internet-has-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aluremart.com\/?p=834","title":{"rendered":"Say Less! Nia Long Gets Real About What She Won\u2019t Tolerate From Men & The Internet Has Thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nia Long<\/strong>\u00a0is letting the fellas know that if they plan on stepping to her, they better come correct or don\u2019t come at all.\u00a0She dropped a lil\u2019 message on social media about her<\/p>\n

Nia Long Spills On Her Dating Deal-Breakers<\/h3>\n

Recently, Nia Long gave the internet a lil\u2019 kii when she dropped a post on her Instagram Story about her dating deal-breaker5s. The actress reposted a message that basically said she keeps a checklist for her men, and at this point, she feels like it\u2019s old-fashioned, clearly implying that the fellas using come with some of the baggage on her list.\u00a0\u201cCall me old fashioned but I like my men without wives, girlfriends, or personality disorders.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>Folks online quickly weighed in, saying they must be old-fashioned too because their standards are just as high as hers.<\/p>\n

dating deal-breakers, and the internet wasted no time reacting to her post.<\/p>\n

Social Media Weighs In After Nia Keeps It Real About Her Deal-Breakers<\/h3>\n

Reactions to Nia\u2019s post kept popping off over in\u00a0The Shade Room\u2019s comment section<\/a>, with some Roomies even dropping a few of their own deal-breakers. Peep some of the responses below.<\/p>\n

Instagram user @prettyprettyshelly wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>Me too sis \u2026 me too\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude0a\"\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Instagram user @wiggz_entertainment wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>I\u2019m old fashion right with you bookie\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude4c\ud83c\udffe\"\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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While Instagram user @britt.posey wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>And those standards is why she still look good at almost 60 take notes ladies.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Then Instagram user @snerryveryberry wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>AND STRAIGHT!\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude02\"\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Another Instagram user @respectfullysweettea wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>Well that leaves about 10% of the male population\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude02\"\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Instagram user @rp3_mommiana wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>Helloooooo\u00a0\"\u203c\ufe0f\"\u00a0like when did y\u2019all make this normal to date people with partners & I\u2019m glad she didn\u2019t forget the personality disorder part\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude02\"\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Then another Instagram user @tamashintl wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>She also forgot to mention mommy issues\u00a0\"\ud83d\ude02\"<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

While another Instagram user @therealfamatta wrote,\u00a0\u201cAnd feminine mood swings.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Finally, Instagram user @thevirgin94 wrote,\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>And not in love with their homeboys!!\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nia Spills On Dating Rules, NDAs & What Gives Her The Ick<\/h3>\n

Nia Long previously kept it 100 about dating during a convo with Playboy in April, sharing her biggest turn-off with them. She said people who talk to much give her the ick, and if she ever plans to have a one-night stand, she rather have them sign an NDA. On top of that, she said she doesn\u2019t want to wait a whole day for a text reply.<\/p>\n

\u201cI need them to shut up. If we\u2019re going to have a one-night stand, I almost feel like I need to have them sign NDAs.\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0She continued,\u00a0\u201cThe new way of dating is so\u2014I don\u2019t even understand what\u2019s happening! First of all, if I text you and you take a day, I\u2019m never talking to you again. Never talking again.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

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